But as a man, “I put childish ways behind me.” Notice that this is a statement.
They are fine the way they are, and they don’t need a man in their life – no matter what they may say.Many guys have told me how they were very interested in a girl, but she kept on emphasizing her independence and all that she was able to accomplish. ” Lessons Learned When I was a child, I remember visiting my pediatrician’s office and seeing a poster in his office.Being with an independent woman can expose weaknesses or challenge a man’s abilities in the skills that she knows, thus injuring his ego.They may look at women like this as threatening to their manhood and cause them to run. Nobody wants to be shown up by others, and our society has made it a weakness for a guy to not be able to do something better than a woman.Intimidation The most common reply from women as to why they are still single is that “men are intimidated” by them.
Many men can be intimidated by a woman who is capable of doing everything for herself.
Many of them are “mature,” single, well established, have great jobs, own their own home, are very independent and are very happy.
They travel the world, they fix things around their homes and they serve in leadership roles in their church.
Have you and your friends ever looked at something, like a situation, an inanimate object, or a person and have come to totally different conclusions about it? I love how the human mind works – how fast it takes in data through the eyes, processes and compares it to personal desires and experiences in the mind, and formulates an instant impression.
I know men do this well, sometimes too well, especially when it comes to women (so I’m reminded by some of my female friends).
Men who are drawn to independent, successful women usually fit into either of two categories.