Now that I’m dating again post-divorce, I lost the guest room but kept the adage, and apply it thru the lens of romance. As you apply the following steps, infuse your intentions into each action.
When I invite a man over, I want him to relax, lounge and leisure with me, get grounded, and feel open enough to bare his soul. In feng shui, the ‘cure’ and the intention work in delightful tandem.
Look around your room, art included, and look for themes. Get creative and embed happy twosomes around your bedroom. Love on this zone and place something symbolic here, or better yet, two somethings.
How will you know if a guy is going to be good in bed?Even if these signs are present in the man that you’re seeing, it is not a 100% guarantee that he is going to be excellent in bed.Not all guys are the same, so you will have to look deeper into their actions and attitudes.Does their personality and attitude tell you anything?An attractive person can be just as bad in bed as someone who’s equally unattractive.
You don’t get to be a master in the sexual arts just by looking like it.Struggling with insomnia, nightmares or infidelity? Take down the mirror(s) facing your bed, or cover at night if removal is not an option. Okay, so your dream lover is chilling in bed, leaning against that solid wall and reading you erotic poetry: but where will they hang their hat?If dreamy weekends together sound nice, give your guy or gal a place to hang up a few items.You cannot rely on playboys as well, because the amount of women they slept with is not a good basis for their abilities.Some guys are just in it for the numbers or their self-serving interests.Basing a person’s skill in bed on their appearance is absolutely useless.