Dating more than one person at a time

I still wasn’t the most confident guy (for example, I still wasn’t randomly asking girls out in public) but I was becoming very comfortable on dates, which gave the appearance of confidence. Less Stress With dating multiple women, there was always another first date on the horizon. I lost my hell-bent desire to make every date go perfectly.

When the stress lessened, I stopped paying attention to myself and started paying attention to my date.

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We did have a nice time that evening and then proceeded to never speak to each other again.

Failure became a part of dating, neither good nor bad; just a part that has to be accepted. Better First Impressions This was a direct result of having less stress.

On one occasion when things were going very poorly, instead of stressing out, I told my date I didn’t think we were a great match but that we could still have fun over dinner.

She seemed relieved and agreed to try to enjoy the dinner.

Dating in numbers allowed me to make decisions based on what I desired, not based on how lonely I was at that time.

It also helped me better define what I was looking for in my profile. Greater Comfort One great side-effect to dating so actively was that I became more comfortable with dating itself.

As the stress began to lessen, I started representing who I was much better.

Early on I was always in a panic-mode: trying to make sure everything went perfect on every date, overly concerned about the happiness of my date, worried about the impression I was making and so on.

Let’s take the example to the odds example to the meets their special someone, guaranteed.

Some may meet on the first date, some may meet on the third but no one ever needs to go beyond a fifth date.

When I was relaxed, there was no “doing better” or “doing worse”. For the rest of us, the biggest part of find that special someone is opportunity.