The reason for this is because of their ability to blend in with the environment they are in at any given time.
There is a place in every INFJ where they are so removed from this world and its petty miseries, that what you are actually seeing in many of them is a husk of sorts, it is not their true self.Their true self is mostly discovered through their literary or artistic productions.It went on to cite Martin Luther King, Mother Teresa and Nelson Mandela among my INFJ peers.Imagine how insufferable this made me, then multiply it by two. “[I]f they can ensure that their efforts are recognized, ISFJs are likely to feel a level of satisfaction in what they do that many other personality types can only dream of.” SATISFACTION?Another claimed, to my horror: “They may find they run out of things to talk about.”“INFJs and ISFJs sometimes remain in partnerships that are no longer working,” reported one final assessment, sending me into a full spiral. I’d somehow managed to hone in on the most inappropriate approach to personality tests: take the results as rigid rule, put people in boxes they didn’t need nor ask for and then judge them for it. Before long, though, I began to notice parts of me, him and our relationship that didn’t fit the internet’s descriptions.
I found brief solace in the fact that Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt were an example of a successful INFJ/ISFJ couple, but I’d never been all that into Brad Pitt, honestly, and their marriage seemed snoozy (and would eventually end, not that I knew), so I got back to panicking. In other words, I stepped out of my utter delirium. My reliance on them said so much more about me and my insecurities than they ever did about him or our relationship.Sensing people (S) are said to be practical, concrete, present and observant.Was this why my minutes-long philosophical ponderings put him to sleep? (The answer, in hindsight, was that my rants were just boring and uninspired and it was 11 p.m.)“The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world,” reported 16Personalities, wrapping me up in a special snowflake blanket and stroking my ego.You will not necessarily have an inkling of this until you have glimpsed the INFJ in their natural environment where they rule supreme.Read some of their writings sometime, if you have a chance, which you likely won’t, as INFJs are pretty secretive.The second letter in MBTI results is supposed to indicate how one processes the world.