Two main issues are in play here: honesty and uncommunicated expectations.
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That being said, I know it’s important for people to speak their truth and that part of that truth is not just communicating your lack of interest but that you find such talk so early on offensive. Don’t let what everyone else is doing change or influence your personal boundaries or limits.
What if you are still interested in talking but just not about sex? You might think that if you say no to every man who mentions sex in the first conversation, you won’t meet anyone.
I ignore it most of the time, because most of the "conversations" I get are just people looking for sex or flings.
I actually tried looking for friends on it last week since I'm living in a different area now.
Second, there's the issue of expectations you two have not discussed.
This situation underlines the importance of checking in with one's spouse or partner about the various aspects of long-term relationships: finances, in-laws, jobs, children (if any), housekeeping, plans, and sex. So, even though you said your vows and have been together for a while, it sounds like the topic of online chatting and surfing porn sites never came up.
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Unless he informed you or gave you the chance to participate in these activities, it was not an honest act on his part.