Am muna from senegal dakar, i want a man who spend my life with and a man who care and understand things,my Dreams is to relocate from to another country, were i can have rest of mind, i am looking for a man to marrge me and care for me. We are friends almost a year we were talking about marriage before but she said her family would never say okay.
If you are dating this girl, STOP, it is not allowed in Islam.I guess that's why accept them more down there but in shaa Allah if his good and respectful I don't see why they won't accept him no matter what his color is. She's living here in America but her father is living in Europe so I can't talk with her father.I guess that's they accept them more down there but in shaa Allah if his good and respectful I don't see why they won't accept him no matter what his color is.In Minnesota the white reverts speak Somali and wear macawis LOL!Follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest you swerve, and if you distort (justice) or decline to do justice, verily Allah is well-acquainted with all that you do." [An-Nisa 5] The Prophet said: "Whosoever leaves off obedience and separates from the Jamaa'ah and dies, he dies a death of jaahiliyyah.
Whoever fights under the banner of the blind, becoming angry for 'asabiyyah (nationalism/tribalism/partisanship) or calling to 'asabiyyah, or assisting 'asabiyyah, then dies, he dies a death of jaahiliyyah." muslim Narrated 'Abdullah: The Prophet, said, "Abusing a Muslim is Fusuq (evil doing) and killing him is Kufr (disbelief)." sahih bukhari "Creeping upon you is the diseases of those people before you: envy and hatred. I do not say it shaves the hair but it shaves the religion!
may Allah give you both what is best for you amin do you know about istikarah prayer, if not we can get u a link if u need it.
here u go, you can write it down on a paper and read from it in your prayer until u are able to memorise it insha Allah.
By the One in whose Hand is my soul, you will not enter paradise until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another.
Certainly, let me inform you of that which may establish such things: spread the greetings and peace among yourselves." [Recorded by Imam Ahmad and Al-Tirmidhi] Allah reward u amin, youre right what the girls sister thinks is irrelevant, so dont speak to the sister, just go through the uncle and speak with him, go visit him and chat and see where to go from there in regards to marriage.
Actually that doesn't matter if her sister likes me if her uncle will say no. Probably she want to check on me for see its worth to bother her uncle meet with me.